Friday, August 17, 2007

Father – Daughter: A Special Bond.




He fears to take you in his Arms when you are just a month old, but the same He carries you on his arms when you are 10 from a late night journey; so that your sleep is undisturbed।


He will start scolding you for keeping books neatly, but the moment mummy jumps in the firing session; he will be the best support for you.


He celebrates your Birthday like a Festival in the House and is least bothered for his own birthday.


He never scolds you on your low performance in the exam, instead encourages you to do your best the next time.


You are hospitalized for a small cut, and he goes on a Low Blood Pressure.


Your smallest achievement will be his News For The Day, until you give him your next achievement.


Do any line quoted above; portray the magnificent person in your life? Yes I am here speaking about “Father – the great wall of Support for every daughter!”


Often said, quoted and experienced, Father’s share a special relation with his daughter. It is a very special bond, which exists between them. Birth of a girl child for a father is Heaven on Earth. He takes all the extra care for his girl child, which is possible for him. He becomes a shield between you and the society outside and in his own way he tries to show you the world. Here also he never hides facts from you but protects you from the ugly face of the world.


Here, neither I am trying to question the dependency of a female on a male; nor am I trying to state that girls need someone to protect them. The daughter may be able to protect herself in a much better way, but this does not stop the Father from Protecting.


Mummy may be the best friend for every daughter, but still she sees an icon in Her Father. He is the first Man in her life and he is the Best. She starts viewing every important male relation around her Father. As a child, if a sibling she wants her brother to be like her father. As a child, if single she wants her first kindergarten friend to be like him. As years pass, she strikes an emotional cord with her father. Later, when she finds the soul mate, she tends to match at least one quality of her father in that Special Person.


Still he is not the person who owns a Special day (viz. Father’s Day) celebrated for him. The way other relations have a day to celebrate as their day, Father’s Day is not that a grand affair. He is like the lamppost in every daughter’s life, which always shows the right direction.


Whenever a daughter thinks about her father, there is only one statement on her mind; “My Daddy Strongest!” This Blog is a Salute to every Father, who in all odds shares a special bond with her Daughter।



Please Note: My first Blog is a tribute to my Father who left the world on 11th December 2004. He was called by the GOD, may be HE also needed the Special Bond.

6 Comments:

At August 17, 2007 at 8:28 AM , Blogger Harshad said...

Feelings straight from your heart .... devoid of any artificiality ... pure, genuine .... The hidden yet open anguish all worded beautifully ...
A daughter speaking out about her dad ......
Wonderful start to a wonderful hobby .....
All the best, always ,,,

Harshad

 
At August 18, 2007 at 9:36 AM , Blogger shri said...

Hey kshamata great start ...from a great and brave daughter ...my best wishes is always with you...ur really special for each who knows you ...keep blogging and good wishesh
..shrikant

 
At August 20, 2007 at 7:03 AM , Blogger Nanditha Prabhu said...

just chanced upon ur blog.i think its a wonderful tribute to ur father!good going!

 
At August 21, 2007 at 8:12 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

i can understand the feeling which u wanna share.... beautifully written .. keep on writing .. god u lots of power to fulfill all his wishes .....
priyanka

 
At August 21, 2007 at 8:38 AM , Blogger zerodensity said...

"It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was." -- Anne Sexton
This r the only words i remember when i go through this blog...
Every child feels a lot abt his/her FATHER but everyone cannot be this perfect in expressing their feelings....thnx for the mirror u gave all of us to know, remember and cherish the most valuable relation of our life..
br8 work yarr
keep doing...............

 
At September 4, 2007 at 1:29 AM , Blogger Jaishree Iyer said...

kshamata i thing wonderful tribute to your father. his blessings is always to you.wonderful start.
keep on blogging...

 

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